rotaryphones's post gave me an idea.The New Pornographers are a Canadian indie rock band, not particularly queer to my knowledge, but I highly recommend them anyway.
The video for their song Sing Me Spanish Techno, though, is very queer. I don't really want to say more, because part of the fun is watching it unfold. It's only four and a half minutes, so just click on over to YouTube and watch it. :D